Plans and Boundaries

When we first adopted Samantha, we talked it out, got on the same page, and decided what kind of dog owners we were going to be. We weren't going to be the type who referred to their dog like it was their child, and she wouldn't be allowed on any of the furniture because of my allergies. It was a long drive back from the shelter, and I remember looking in the back seat at that little ribby dog and wondering "what have we done? I don't know anything about dogs!" I had to work that weekend, but my husband was off. That's why we picked a Saturday. My "weekend" was Monday, Tuesday, so someone would be home all day with the new dog for the first four days. So I went to work, and within the first few hours my husband sent me a pic with the message, "What do I do?" That silly little dog had curled up on the couch. "Well, push her off and tell her no!" I said. "But... she's cute..." "Well, I guess she's allow...